Remembering the story of Celine and Jesse in Before sunrise and Before sunset movie. That’s exactly the relationship I’m picturing to build up all the time. They’re like present just to shoot the breeze for hours with endless topics running wild spectrums from art, poetry, family, sex, God, Death, dream to even pressing environmental issues (I know, how crazy that is!) during their strolls around those fantastic European cities. Each of them is driven to bridge the space, and barely we saw the conversation got weirdly caught up. They are both terrific I must say. Thanks to Richard Linklater who set the scrappy, yet seductive, witty, intelligent temperature of this relationship just right.
In short, for me an intimate relationship is all about interesting dialogues, honestly that could be anything.. (the sky's the limit), but they need to be existed in some sorts of forms, otherwise, spending times together would be bored to death.
After 4 years, we have come to recognize that there cannot be relationships unless there is commitment, unless there is loyalty, unless there is love, patience, persistence. I sucks at that. I screw things up from time to time. Still, he taught me the lesson: Forgive the past. It is over. Learn from it and let go. People are constantly changing and growing. Do not cling to a limited, disconnected, negative image of a person in the past.Your relationship is always alive and changing.
Cheers and Thank you
P/s: today is no special day, just lounging around home, eating out and talking nonsense things as usual.
P/s: today is no special day, just lounging around home, eating out and talking nonsense things as usual.
